Last blog I discussed my SLS styling rules for your children. I want to take that idea and put my money where my mouth is and discuss how to take a look that was prevalent on the spring 2009 wedding runways to your flower girls' hair.
Generally I want to keep my pick of the week as a separate entity, but I thought the Perfect Girls White Ballerina Dress with Beaded Bodice tied in perfectly with the styling I wanted to address. I'm talking ballerina dresses and there is one hairstyle synonymous with ballerinas. All you mommy and daddy's out there who have a daughter in ballet, you know that buns (tight and very slick, no fly always) is required hair etiquette for serious ballet classes. Bun heads as I lovingly refer to ballerinas. I want to take the bun head aesthetic and translate it to a softer and prettier more wedding appropriate look. Let's face it... the too tight bun goes against every single one of my SLS rules. It's a little too harsh of a hairstyle to go with such a fun and fanciful dress style.
Luckily for me, one of the big trends on the bridal runway were messy buns, so I have some good reference points for you to try on your little flower girls. Haute couture wedding dress designer and goddess Monique Lhuillier had a bun parade during her Spring/Summer 2009 runway show, as did wedding icon Vera Wang. The best part about incorporating this adult trend into your child's flower girl style is that it's already messy and disheveled so you don't have to worry about having every hair in place. It's a kid friendly and low maintenance style that take a traditional bun and make it a little more fashion forward.
Here are some examples:
How do you apply the SLS rules to your daughter's hair with a style that is already clearly less structured and softer than a normal harsh bun. First of all, don't go overboard with the messiness. We want your little bundle to look adorable, not unshowered. Simplify the messiness. Skip the teased look that a lot of the runway buns have. Put some big waves with a large barrel curling iron into the hair. Then loosely grab the hair to make a ponytail. The ponytail should be loose enough so that when you wriggle the ponytail around you're not jerking her head around. Take the pony and loosely twist it. Take the twisted ponytail and wrap it around hair tie. Secure the loose bun with appropriately colored bobby pins (dark pins for dark hair and light for light hair). If you must, spray the hair lightly. For an added touch, take the main flower of the wedding and put it in the side of the bun. Voila!
I hope I was able to translate a runway style into something fun and easy to do in your flower girl's hair. Until next time..
My flower girl dress pick of the week:
Perfect Girls White Ballerina Dress with Beaded Bodice (Item: J989G-WHT). This dress is adorable. I chose this as my 2nd pick because it has the same ethereal feel as the last pick. Cloud like and fluffy. It's a bit more grounded and traditional for those who thought my last weeks pick was a little too out of the box for their taste. A way to make this dress less traditional is to have a hairstyle that is a little less traditional, like the messy bun. Great news! It's also available in baby dress sizes! Click here to view the Perfect White Baby Ballerina Dress.